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Phillip's avatar

I can sense the hesitancy in many of my friends, who are cautious about what they say in group chats, while I tend to be more freewheeling. None of us are public figures, but we all work desk jobs in fields I’d consider liberal (law, govt, non-profit). If my group chats were ever leaked to my coworkers, I’d resign immediately and never show up again. I hate that we live in a world where people feel the need to self-censor even in private conversations among friends. It is sad.

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Pseudonym Joe's avatar

Is this any different then say this? (https://www.motortrend.com/news/f1s-max-mosley-wins-civil-suit-awarded-119000-following-sex-scandal-1625).

Ultimately if you are a public figure, or someone important enough, you need to accept that a price of that is that your private acts, whether a taste for S&M or goober edgelordism, may go public. My suggestion would be to ask yourself if you would stand by your acts if they would go public, like Mr. Mosley.

Anyway, I think the only really offensive part of this whole thing was what these self conscious Nietzschean Übermensch looked like.

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Gene Parmesan's avatar

Seems like the best approach is to never communicate with anyone older than your oldest kid under any circumstances.

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