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Grant Cragun's avatar

I had a similar experience. I watched the end of the game with my five-year-old boy, in which he finally actually sat and watched with me. He kept asking me when the Niners were going to win the Super Bowl. It was surreal explaining to him as Mahomes was marching down the field in overtime that the Niners were probably not going to win.

He took it like a champ, and also helped me recognize what was most important when the Niners ultimately lost. I was heartbroken, but encouraged to know that I can at least share the moment with my son. This could be the beginning of a lifetime of bonding over sports.

I don’t typically comment on your articles, but this one struck home with its similarities. Driving home from my dad‘s house trying to avoid drunk drivers with my little boy in the backseat. Not allowing myself to get too high or too low. And recognizing that I have real family responsibilities and can’t let sporting events like this negatively impact my family. I’m hoping this perspective can help ease the strain of this loss.

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Dylan's avatar

The 49ers have an interesting fan dynamic, where they have essentially one generation of fans that got a front row seat to Montana and Rice and a whole shit ton of Lombardy trophies. But if you were born in the mid 90s or later, it’s been a series of heartbreaking losses and near misses.

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